This song made my weekend

Happy sunday for everyone. Oh, NO tomorrow, monday again. talk to you on friday. wish you have great week for everyone.

this song made my weekend.

Somebody who somebody who
Somebody who loves me
Somebody who somebody who
To hold me in his arms oh
I need a man who'll take a chance
On a love that burns hot enough to last
So when the night falls
My lonely heart calls

Who is your Mr/Mss right? Waa' ayo qofkii kugu haboona?

OBS. I dont know how many of you can only read English. To write two languages ​​at the same time isnt easy. So I would like to know if there are some of you who would like to have english article also otherwise I'll skip writing English.

Jimce wanaagsan. waxan ka cudur daaranaya in anaan manta hore u soo galin maqaal-kayga. sabaabtuna waa aniga oo manta aad u mashquulsana. Hada ayaan aqal-ka soo galay.

Waxaynu ku balansanayn in aan manta wax ka qoro waxa loo yaqaan ''Mr/Mss right'' ama qofka saxda ah ee aad u qalando. Marar badan ayaa waxa laga dhex maqla khaniisinta dhexdeeda waxan sugaya qof fican oo aan isku qalano, kaas oo galbeed-ka ama wadamada Europe iyo America looga yaqaano Mr Right ama Mss Right. Waa su'aale qofkaas bah weynta odhami sugta, ma laylatul khatar-ba mise waa malak? Wax Mr/Mss right ama qumaane, qumaan la dhaha ma jiro. Kaliya waa riyo ay nafta ku dajiyaan malayiin, khanisiin ah oo aduun-kan ku nool oo intooda badan ku fashilmay xidhiidh-ka iyo noolol dacaad ah oo la isku imaan qabo in ay dhisan. Shaki la'aan qof walba qof uu u qalmo oo u noolol la qaybsado aduun-kan waa ka helaya. Kaliya waxad u bahan tahay in aad ogaado dhowr wax inta anaad galin radcadaada qof-kii aad noolashan la qaybsan lahayd. Hadaba waa yaabe side raacdada loo gala, amaba loogu guulaysta?? Mogaane waa tan rabo in aan manta kula wadago ee, intanaan afka ku kala furiin adna dhagaha iyo maan-ka ii fur. Waxan ku su'aalay: Habeen ama maalin intaad naftaada la kaliyaysatay, Ma ku soo hor marayn hebelo aad taqaan ama aad tv, film ama boog aad ka akhriday  noolol jacayl iyo farxad badan oo ay ku nool yihiin??? Ka dib ma is weydiisay waxad kali kugu nooshahay ee aad farxada iyo jacayl-ka uga qaday???? Waabe yaabe moogane hadana ma xasuusatay jacaylo baryo noolasha ku ifiyay siday kaga damayn??? Hadiiba aad mudo is ciil cuntay oo aad nasiib daro is baday, hadana ma istiri Allah hebel ama hebelaayo iyo hebel kale oo imaan doona ayaa adna shamaci jacayl-ka ku shidi doona????

Waa hubaal in aad baryo badweynta khiyaaliga ah dhex maquurtay. Lakiin kaliga kuma tihiid ee ogow. Waa shaki la'aan noolashu in ay macaan iyo qadhaadh labadaba xambaarsan tahay, walow aynu inta badan macaan filano. Waxan qaba xidhiidh gulaysta iyo farxad waarta waxa u sal ah maan iyo maskax marka hore dejisa khariidaadi lagu gaadhi laha. Khalad-ka waxa loo sameeyay in aan wax ka barano. Sidaas darteed xidhiidh walba oo ku soo maray waa shaki la'aan in aad wax ka baratay. Waa muhiim marka hore in aad ogaado. Qof ahaan waxad tahay iyo waxad rabto. Marka xigta waa muhiim in anaad qofna ka dalban wax adiguba anaad yeeshayn ama anaad ahayn. Waxan marar badan la kulma dad kala duwan oo badigoodu aan jinsiga somali-nimo ku abtirsan oo xidhiidho kala duwan sameeyey. Waxan inta badan waydiiyay wixi sabaab u noqday in u xidhiidh-koodu burburo ama guul daraysto. Badidooda waxay ii sheegaan wax isku mid ah, marka kowbaad in khalad-ka burbur-ka ayna iyagu lahayn. taas oo aan hubo in ay ku koban tahay kaliya is difaaca. Kaas oo qayb ka ah debecaada benu adam-ka oo mar walba khalad ka qadan. Benu adam-ka dabeecadihiisa waxa ku jira wax la dhaho, hab-ka is beri yeel-ka, ama ceeb ka saliim nimada 'defense mechanism' kaas oo marar badan qofka khaladaad-ka isaga naftiisa ka yimaado sabaab u yeela. In ay gadaal ka ogaadayn qof ay jeclaayayn in ayna wax badan wadaagin oo dabeecad iyo maskaxba ay kala duwan yihiin. Waxa igu darna wiil aan sanad ka hor la kulmay oo markaas xidhiidh laha. Markii aan mudo sheekaysanay ayuu dhahay. Afkaaga yayna dhaafine xidhiidh ayaan leeyahay, intan yaabay ayaan su'aalay oo waa yabe maxad raadinaysa haddiba aad xidhiidh leedahay. Wuxu igu jawaabay sex. Waxan dhahay maxa kugu wacan ee aad sida u yeelaysa. Wuxu yidhi isaguba 'lamanihiisa' sidaasu yeela. Marka ayaan dhahay hadaad ogtahay maad kala hadashid ama is fasaxdan oo mid walba hal-kiisa suuqa ka galo. Wuxu dhahay waan jeclahay. Marka waxan dhahay hadaad jeceshay maxad sidan u yeelaysa. Wuxu yidhi nafta ayaan ku maweelinaya. Marka waxa yaable cudur-ka ka gala fardaha haddi laga gubo dameer!!! Waxan huba marka hore haddi aad adigu qof ahaan iskula showrto oo aad naftaada waydiiso waxad rabto. Marka sahal ayay noqonaysa in aad ka dibna raadiso wixi aad rabtay. Tusaale ahaan hadaad ogaado in aad kaliya rabto uun galmo, Marka waxa sahal noqonaysa in anaad cidna lu'goyn adna lagu lu'goyn. Haddi aad rabto xidhiidh jacayl oo farxad waarta leh. Marka waa muhiim in aad samayso waxa galbeed-ka looga yaqaan 'check list' oo macneheegu yahay qof nooce ah ayaad rabta. tusaale ahaan side u eeg. Ama tusaale ahaan ma waxad rabta wiil qurxoon oo dabaal ah, ama wiil maskax badan oo fool xun iyo wixi la mid ah. Xidhiidh-kaygii ugu horeeyay uguna danbeeyay waxan ka bartay wax weyn. Waxan ka bartay afar  shay oo manta igu jira Check list kayga aan ku raadiyo jacay-lkayga soo socda ee aan rabo in aan noolasha inta ka hadhay la wadaago. 1_ Da'ada waxan shaki ku jiriin lamaanaha ay u dhaxayso ka badan 5 sanno in ay da'adoodu caqabad ku noqonayso xidhiidh-kooda. Marka ay ugu yar tahay waad iga weyn tahay oo lagu kaftamo ayaa ismaan dhaaf dhalin karta. 2_ Dhaqaalaha, Haddi u jiro farqi xaga dhaqaalaha oo weyn oo lamanaha u dhexeeya waxa imaanaysa, sinaan la'aan. Tusaale ahaan haddi lamanaha midkood shaqeeyo oo ka kalena bilo shaqo yahay. Marka waxa dhacaysa aniga ayaa mar walba shaqeeya oo wax walba bixiya adiguna waad iska jiifta. taas oo dhawaac weyn iyo ismaan dhaaf keeni karta. 3_ Dhaqan-ka ama diin-ta, tusaale ahaan laba dhaqan oo aad u kala fog hadaad ka timaadayn. Sida dhaqan afrikan bulshadu isku xidhan tahay oo mar walba qadhaan la bixiyo iyo dhaqamada galbeed-ka oo ah naftada iyo kaliga. Waxa laga yaaba qof cadaan ah in uuna fahmi karin sabaabta aad biil jogto ah aad ugu dirto qoys afrika joga, May shaqysta maxad ugu dirta ayaa is maan dhaaf dhalin karta, waayo ma fahmi karo waxa dhinaca kale ka jira.  ta ugu danbeysa uguna muhiimsan waa 4_Aqoonta. tusaale ahaan hadaad tahay qof wax bartay oo aad xidhiidh la samayso qof aad ay u hooseeyo xaga aqoonta. waxay keenaysa is yasid. 'afar-da wax ee aan soo tiriyay haddi u mid maqan yahay xidhiidh-ku waa shaqayn kara waayo 3-da kale ayaan wadaagtan qof-ka. Lakiin haddi laba ka mid ah maqan tahay. Marka dhibtu ma yaraynayso. Kaba sii daran hadaad ka badan-na ku kala duwan tihiin. 2011 ka badan 4 qof ayaa xidhiidh ii waydiistay in aan la sameeyo, gabigood dad fican oo xidhiidh u qalma ayay ahaayayn Lakiin nasiib daro ugu yaraan laba check list kayga ka mid ah may buxinayn. Sida si leg 3 qof ayaa 2012 iyaguna xidhiidh ila soo hadal qaaday lakiin kama aqbalin. Maxa yeelay waxan ogaa in anaan meel fog isla gadhayn. Marka waxan ujeeda hadaad ogtahay waxad rabto waa sahal sidaad ku hesho. Taasina ma adka kaliya waxay u bahan tahay in aad adigu naftaada waxay tahay iyo waxay rabto ogaado. Labada hadaad heshana waa sahal in aad ku noolato noolol farxad badan xata hadaad noolashada oodhan kali ku qadato.

Dhamaad

Araar: wax walba oo halkan ku qoran waa aragti-day, waayo arag-nimadayda. Maha badhitaan cilmiyeedo ama waxyi. masu'liiyada odhaahdana aniga iska leh. Marka fadlan ha u qaadan weerar shakhsi ah. waa qoraal guud ahaan dad-ka akhrinaya oodhan ku socda. wixi fikrad talo iyo tusaaleba ah waan soo dhawaynaya 

Qalinkii: Ahmed Somali

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Su'aalo muhiim ah oo wiil ii soo waydiiyay.

Salaan qiimo badan dhaman akhyaar-ta raacda fariin sidahay-gan.

Waxa su'aalo igu ii soo diray barta facebook-ga wiil Soomaaliyeed. Waxan rabay su'aalaha iyo jawabaha aan ka bixiyayba in aan halkan idinkula wadaago. Sabaabtuna waa iyada oo aan is leeyahay aarmay wax u taran dad kale oo wiil-kaas la dareen ah. Qof walba waa u furan tahay in u ila soo xidhiidho, talo ii siiyo, aragtidiisa iyo waayo arag-nimadiisa ila wadaago. Waa balan in xogta qofku tahay mid aniga igu xafidan lakiin, waayo arag-nimadiisa ama taloyiinkayga waa mid aan bulshada la wadaagi doono, aniga oo aan qof-ka magac dhabayn. Halkan ayay ka bilaabmayan su'aalaha u wiil-ku ii soo waydiiyay. 

S. Magacaygu waa J, waxan ahay 20 jir oo degan S, wiilasha ayaan ka hela, lakiin jajab ma ahi, asxaabtaydu waa dad caadi ah, Soomali-da waan ka baqa, marka maxad igula talin lahayd?

J. waan fahmi kara xaal-kaga sxb, maan fahmin soomaali-da kuwa aad ujeedo, hadaad u geedo kuwa khaniisinta ah. Anigu waxan qaba in ayna jirin sabaab aad uga baqda, Maxa yeelay qof aad isku mid tihiin wuxu ka sheegayaba yar. Laga yaaba in aad is weheshataan oo aad wax badan wadaagtan. Hadaad u jeedo asxaabtada, Sxb marnaba kugu lama taliyayn in aad wax ka baxsan sxb-tinimadiina aad la wadaagto soomaali-da aan khanisiinta ahay, xata kuwa cagna khaniis-nimada kula jira cagna dhinaca kale. Waxad isku dayda intii karaan-kaga ah in aad ka fogaado in aan dareen taraaraxdo oo aad isku daydo in aad wax la samayso, qof aan khaniis ahayn ama aanad hubin waxa u ka rabo. Sxb marka ay noqoto taladayda, waxan kugula talinaya waxad u noolada sidaad dan moodo ee aad is leedahay dhib kuguma soo gadhayso. Waxan kugu adkaynaya in aad wax barashadaada ku daadasho hadaad arday tahay, hadaad shaqaysana noqoto qof muuqda oo noolasha iska dhiciya, Hadaanad midba ahayn aad raadiso booskaaga aad noolasha ku leedahay, sida waxbarasho ama shaqo. Tan ku saabsan hab nolooledkaagana, waxan huba in ayna waxba ka xumaan doonin, kaliya dhabar adeg, deganaan muuji, dadkana tus qof ahaan taada, hoosna naftaada ha u fiirin ee mar walba qof-kaad tahay iyo waxad noolasha ka tahay isku qiime.

S. Waxan jeclahay in aan aado meelaha ciduhu iskugu timaadan lakiin waxan ka baqaya in aan qarxo, maxan yeela?

J. Meelaha gay-gu aado, sida club-yada, Gay bar-rarka, Sauna-noyiinka iyo xafladaha waaweyn ee Gay-ga ah kaliya waxa taga uun dadka Gay-ga ah. Ma ii muqaato wax dhib ah oo aad uga baqdo in aad meelahas aado oo aad dad kula kulanto. Qof walba oo halka aada waa khaniis ama qof sxb la ah khaniisinta oo dulqad u leh khaniis-nimada. wax u ka sheegi karana ma jirto. Kaliya waxad u bahan tahay in aad Galmo xafidan samayso haddiiba aad qof kula kulanto, sida in aad condom istimaasho. Anigu wadamo badan ayaan aaday, meelo badan oo Gay-gu tagana waan tagay, sida Club-yo, Bar, Sauna iyo wixi la mid ah. kuwaas oo ku yaala magaloyiin-ka ugu dadka badan aduunkan, intan qof Soomaali ah ku arkay waa 1/10000. waxan ugu jeeda waa wax yar. Soomaali-da khaniisinta ah meelaha waa ku yar yihiin wax ugu wacanba. In kasta oo ay ficnayd in aan ku arko dad aniga oo kale ah.

S. Muuqayga kuma qanacsani, sidayn isku qurxiya?

J. Quruxda ugu weyni waa kalsooni-da nafta. ta muuqa qofka ku saabsan waa laba qaybood, mid loo dhasho iyo mid la dhaliyo. ta loo dhasho hadaan la daryeelin isayaduna waa lunta. Ta la dhaliyo waa ta ugu muhiimsan uguna qiimiga badan. 5 sano ka hor muuqu wax qiimi ah iima lahayn lakiin waxan ogaaday in u muuqu yahay ta dadka kugu soo jiidi karta ama ka jiidi karta. aad ayaan manta muuqa u daneeya. Tusaale ahaan waxan ahaa qof feedho yar, waxan bilaabay in aan jidh-ka dhiso oo aan gym aado. Waxan ka soo tagay hip hop style to meterosexual style. Waxan laha ilko cas, manta ilmo cad. Is bedel kaasi aad ayuu wax uga badalay kalsonideyda iyo jiritankayga ba. Marka waxad ogaada in wiil qurxoon oo og quruxdiisa in u raadinayo mid la mid ah ama u dhow, Marka in kasta oo ay ku xidhan tahay waxad rabto. Hadana muuqu waa soo jiide. Marka muuqa ha moogaan

S. Soomali-da waad taqaana oo way ku Qarxinayan, lakiin Soomaali badan ayaan ku bartay Facebook-ga, paltalk-ka iyo somalinet, xata qaar S degan, ma igula talin lahayd in aan la kulmo?

J. waa su'aal shakhsi ah. Anigu kolay qof walba lama kulmayn oo aan Internet-ka ka bartay lakiin haddi aan u arko qofka in aan wax badan wadaagno, oo aan is fahmi karno haa waan la kulmi laha. Marka kolay in aad qiimayso qofka waa howl adiga kugu xidhan.

S. Marar badan waxa dhacda in wiilasha aan Internet-ka kula kulmo ii waydiiyan, cid maad taqaan, shaac maad tahay, jabjab maad tahay. Hadana kuwa sida dhahaya ayaa intaba ah, maxa soomaali-da sidaas ugu wacan?

J. waan fahmi kara halkaad ka hadlayso. Waxan filaya argagaxa iyo depression-ka haya in u keenayo in u qofku mararka qaar isagu waxa u yahay dad-ka kale ka raadiyo. Lakiin kolayba ma fiicna qof-ka benu adam-ka ah in u naftiisa khiyaali kula noolado, ama naftiisa iyo shakhsiyadiisa been ku gado.

S. Adiga maa lagu ogyahay? Jajab ma tahay?

J. Maya, Waxan amiinsanahay in aad bulshada u soo shaac baxdo waxba kuma jabna lakiin waxa ka muhiimsan in aad marka kowbaad adigu isku soo shaax baxdo oo aad ogaado qofka aad tahay. Maya jajab ma ahi lakiin in u qofku jajab noqdo waxba uma arko, maxa yeelay in la kala duwanaado waa macnaha noolashu leedahay.

S. Wali-ga wax ma jeclaatay? haday jawaabtu haa tahay meeqa jeer?

J. Haa, Laba jeer, Markii kowbaad gabadh, waxay ahayd intii anaan naftayda ogaan. Markii xigtayna wiil Soomali.yeed oo aan aqal wada dagnay oo aan sanad wada noolayn.

S. Ma waxad rabta in aad Gay ku gabowdo mise gabadh ayaad guursan rabta?

J. Gay-nimadu maha shaqo ee waa hab noololeed, Marka ku gabowdaya iyo ku geeri-yotabaya maha shaqo howl gab laga noqdo waa hab noololeed lagu noolado. Maya gabadh lakiin haa wiil iyo caruur.

S. Maxad qabata adigu oo sideed u nooshahay?

J. Wax badan, Jamacad ayaad dhigta, waan shaqeeya weekend-yada, , gym ayaan aada, marar qaarna asxaabta ayaan wakhtiga la qaata. Lakiin inta badan aad ayaan u shaqeeya. Waxanaan qaba shaqada badani in ay aad naftada iyo noolashayda u caawisay. Markan daalana 3-biloodba mar ayaan safra oo aan wakhti fican soo qaata. 

Waxan rajaynaya in aad jawabahayga ku qanacdo. Waxan soo dhawaynaya qof walba oo rabo in uu wax ii soo waydiiyo. waxad igu soo xidhiidhi karta facebook-ga facebook.com/iiwaydii. ama handsomeswed@gmail.com. 

Madaama aan aad mashquul u ahayn wixi jawaab ah waxad iga heli doontan uun weekend-yada

Qalinkii: Ahmed Somali

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Maxad Khaniis u tahay? Qaybti ugu danbaysay

OBS. This is last part of Maxad Khaniis u tahay? Next week will be about dating skills and who is your Mr right?
waa qaybtii ugu danbaysay ee Maxad Khaniis u tahay? todobaad-ka danbe waxan ka hadli doona, habshukaansiga, iyo waa ayo qofkaagu?


'Nin ku yidhi sinaan mayno adna diid sarayntiisa' Somali-da ayaa sida ku maahmah. Waxa looga jeeda, qof jiritaan-kaaga diidan, hadaad ka aqbasho in aad ka hosayso, marka dhibtu waa adiga.
Sidaan hore ugu balan qaday waxan rabay in aan manta dhamays tiro qaybtii hore ee ku sabsanayd: Maxad Khaniis u tahay? 
sidaan hore u soo sheegay, hab galmeed-ku waa wax loo dhasho. Marka su'aal ayaa waxay ahayd ma labadali kara ama khaniis-nimada ma laga dawooba? sidee se loogu noolan kara noolashaada?

Sidan qaybta hore ku sheegay, khaniis-nimadu maha cudur ama balwad. Waa hab noolaleed loo dhasho. Macnuhu waxa weeye madaama aad tahay khaniis oo aad ka hesho ama soo jidasho u leedahay, jinsiga kula mid ka ah, Habkaas ma badali karta? haday jawaabtu tahay haa maxad ku badali karta?
Maya Lama badali karo hab nolooled-ka, way jirta ama waa dhici karta in u qof isku dayo in u badalo hase yeeshe in u ku guulaysto sahal maha. Waxaba laga yaaba in ay dhawac xaga maskaxda ah ku keento, maxa yeelay qofkani wuxu aqoonsan laayahay naftiisa. In u qof-ku isagu is aqoonsan waayo waxay keenta xanuun xaga maskaxda ah. Kaas oo laga yaabo in noolasha qofka u dhawac weyn iyo dib u dhac ku keeno. Qof-ka aad tahay maha jilitaan ee waa xaqiiq, sidaas oo kale ayaanad u jili karin qof anaad ahayn, xata hadaad isku dayto. 

Waxa mar aan la shakaystay wiil aan asxaab isku dhow nahay oo markaas xaas laha, waxan waydiiyay: intaad xaas-kaaga wada jogtayn wali-ga wiil ma jeclaatay, Wuxu igu jawaabay: haa. Hadana waxan waydiiyay maxad dareemaysay marka aad habeen-kii guriga haweenaydada ku soo hooyato adiga oo wakhti la soo qatay wiil-kaad rabtay: Wuxu igu jawaabay, Jawaab aan filayay hadana qalbi-ga ii tabatay, wuxu yidhi, waxan dareema danbiile iyo qof lu'gooyo ku wada qof kale. Hada akhriste u fiirso hadal-ka. Film waad jili karta lakiin in aad ku noolato jilitaan maha wax sahal ah. 

Maalin Maalmaha ka mid ah ayaan sheekaysanay sxb- kale oo aan isagana aad iskugu dhow nahay. Wuxu igu dhahay waxan raba Ahmedow in aan guursado. Anaa, aniga oo kaftamaya ayaan dhahay, Ma wiil Soomaaliyeed-ba mise ajnabi. Isaga oo aad moodo in uuna su'aasha filayn ayuu dhahay. War maya in aan caruur iska dhalo ayaan raba. Markaasan anaa ku dhahay, Why not? noolashu waa sahal kaliya in aad gabdho la xajootan oo caruur la idiin-ku beero uunba idin-ka xigta ama aad soo kafaalo qaadan ilmo 'Adoption'. Markaasu sii yaaban igu dhahay waar gabadh aan raba in aan arooso. Intan qoslay oo anaan hadal-kiiba sugiin ayaan dhahay, Gabadhu waa aayo oo halkay jogta. Deeto waxa u ii sheegay gabadh ay qarabo yihiin oo jogta duni-da saddexaad, wuxu waliba ii raaciyay, waa gabadh aamus badan oo aan ahayn gabdhaha dadka u war warama. Halkaas ayaan ka dhadhan saday in u rabo gabadh u bulshada tuso uun in u qabo hase yeeshe rabo in u khaniis-nimadiisuna sidiisa u ahaato. Waxan marka si gadoodsan u dhahay intaan magacabay gabdhaha la dhashay mid ka mid ah magaceeda, Ka waran haddi hebla oo kula dhalatay wiil adiga oo kale ah guursado oo dhinaca kalena howlihiisa ka wato. Wuxu dhahay ma ku farxayn. Markaasan dhahay haween-ku aniga qiimo badan ayay igu fadhiyan, in la lu'gooyana waxay ila mid yihiin aniga oo la ii lugoynayo ama walaashay. Marka walaalow habluhu maha alaad la isticmaalo ee lugooyada ka dhaaf. Qof-ka aad tahay ayaad tahay, waxbana kama qaldana. Bulsho aan adigaba ku raali galin kuna noolayn, in aad adigu raali galiso oo aad u noolata sax maha.
Waxan marka ujeeda akhriste waa laga yaaba in aad bulshada raali galiso, lakiin waliga naftaadu raali noqon mayso. Hadaba waa su'aale sideed naftaada u raali galin karta oo aad noolasha ugu noolan karta.

Aabahay ayaa bari hal maahmah ii sheegay, wuxu yidhi 'Sidaad rabto hadaad waydo, waxa la yeela sidii aad huri waydo' Macnuhu waxa weeye hadii aanad helay sidaad jeclaan lahayd, waxad isku dayda in aad u noolado sidii dantu ku bato.

Waa shaki la'aan in badan oo inaga mid ah, in ay jeclayn lahayd in ay u nooladan sida walaalahooda, hooyo iyo aabo wada dhalayn ay u nool yihiin, oo ay caruur dhalan, reero yeeshan, oo ay bulshada u eekadan. Lakiin may dhicin oo waxad tahay khaniis ama khaniisad, Waxba kama khaldana shakhsiyadaada iyo awoodada benu adam-tinimo, lakiin kaliya bulshada ayaa si kale ku aragta! Akhriiste ma is waydiisay, haddi 7-da billion ee dad ah ee dunidan ku nooli, isku wada mid ahaan lahayayn? waxan shaki ku jirin in ay noolashu bila dhadhan noqon lahayd. Marka in aad khaniis tahay, qof kalena khaniis ahayn waa ta noolasha dhadhan-ka u yeelaysa. Aduunyadan ma jirto aragti lagu midaysan yahay oo odhanaysa waxaasa sax ah ma khalad ah, kaliya waxay ku xidhan tahay sax ama khalad aragti-da qofka wax markaas hor yaalan, waalow ay jirto waxyaabo damiir ahaan laga midaysan yahay. Tusaale ahaan, Soomali-da cayil-ka iyo badhita 'futada' weyni waa qurux, caada iyo dhexda yarna waa qurux daro. Hase yeeshe halkan, Europe cayil-ka iyo badhi weyni maha wax laga jecel yahay. Marka moogane hadaad Europe ku noolan lahayd habeen iyo maalin-ba Gym-kaad ku dhex qudhmi lahayd sii aad jidh-kaaga u dhisto. 

Waxan qaba in aad noolashada ugu noolan karto sida ugu fican ee ugu qurxoon. Hadaba taladaydu ma in aad banaanka u soo baxda 'come out' oo aad dhahdo.. haa Khaniis baan ahay ii ogaada??? 
Waxa muhiim ah in aad ku faraxsan tahay noolasha aad ku nooshahay, wali-ga ha ku fikirin in aad u noolado sida u qof kale u nool yahay, lakiin waad hiigsan karta. sabaabtu waxa weeye, waxad ogaada dadku in ay kala karaan, karti iyo noolol-ba duwan yihiin, marka wax sabaab ah oo noolashada qof- kale tiisa aad u barbar dhigtaba iska yar. Aduun-yadan ma jirto qof mucjiso ah, ka harumar sameeya waa dadaalay, ka dib udhacana isaga dib isku riday: Noolashu sideedaba waa wax ku xidhan dadaal shakhsi ah ee maha wax lagu gaadho hab noolaleed, tusaale ahaan qof aan khaniis ahayn uun ba waxa qabta oo hadal macno yar ah.

Waxan amiinsanahay in aad noolasha ugu noolan karto sida aad rabto. Waxan ujeeda hadaad tahay qof noolasha haysta, wax barta, shaqaysta, noolasha iska dhiciyay, Waxan huba in ayna dadku ku mashquulayn dhaqdhaqaaqaga iyo hab noololeed-kaaga. Lakiin hadaad noolasha ku guul daraysato oo aad qayr-ka ka hadho adiga oo khaniis ah, Marka guul darada shakhsi ahaan lagu saari maayo ee hab noololeed-kaaga ayaa la saaraya. Waxan u jeeda akhriiste adiga uun baa badali kara sowr-ka bulshadu ka haysato. 

Khaniis-nimadu maha galmo kaliya. 7 sanno ka hor ayaan markii ugu horaysay ogaaday in aan khaniis ahay. waxay ahayd 2006 marka oo aan kala hadhnay gabadh aan xidhiidh lahayn 2 sanno. Maalin maalmaha ka mid ah ayaa waxan aaday gym 'meesha lagu jimicsado', waxan ku qubaysanayay musqusha gym-ka, waxa isna jogay wiil Irani ah oo quruxlow ahaa. Ka dib markii aan ka baxnay ayuu ila hadlay, gurigiisa ayaan isku raacnay, Isagu marka qorshe ayuu watay lakiin anigu sxb-tinimo ayaan u qatay. Markii aan guri-ga tagnayna wuxu bilaabay in u cunto noo sameeyo, su'aalo ii waydiiyo, ka dibna u dhaho madaama aad dalan tahay waan ku duugaya. Anigu daacad ayaan ahaa oo af labadiisa baal ayaan ku dhahay haa. ka dib waa ii tatabtay anaa waan kacsaday, ka dib galmo aan toos ahayn ayaa na dhex martay. Markii aan gurigay-ga aaday ayaa sowrkii igu soo noqday. aad ayaan uga qomameeyay, waxan dareemay in aan ku kacay dambi weyn, aad ayaan maskaxiyan mudo xanuun u dareemay, Nasiib daro cid aan kala hadlo ma haysan. Malintii danbe ayaan tareen-ka ka arkay xayaysiis ku saabsana dhakhtar cilmi nafsi-ga ah. kii ayaan wacay, haweenay cilmi nafsi-ga ku takhasuustay ayaan la kulmay. Magacay-ga ka dib waxay ii sheegtay, waxa na dhex mara in u labadayada uun nagu koobnaanayo, sidaas darteedna hadaan rabo cawinadeeda aan runta u sheego anaa. Ka dib ayaan goostay in aan runta u sheego. Waxay i waydiisay su'aal cajiib ahayd. Inte in leeg ayaad biyo baxaaga hayn karta? waxan ugu jawaabay ugu badnaan 3 bilood. Waxay tiri ka soo qaad seddex bilood maad biyo bixin, waxad maraysa kacsi halkii ugu sareeyay, waxad la kulantay qof-kii aad is lahayd aduunyadan ayuu ugu qurxoon yahay, macaan yahay, Allah yaa sariir ku geeya! inte in leg ayaad qof-ka galmo tii ugu macanayd aad la yeelan karta? waxan dhahay, hadaan wax kiniin aha ama maan dooriye isticmaalin oo sii cadi ah wax u sameeyo, hal sacad waliba hadaan dadaalo ayaan ugu daray. Intay qososhay ayay tirii, maalinku waa imisa sacadood? waxan dhahay 24 sacadood. Waxay igu tiri 24 sacadood ka jar hal saac 24-1=23. waxan ku dhahay waxa soo hadhaya 23 sacadood. Waxay tirii wax laga yaabo in u hal saac iyo ka yar noolol maalmeed-kaaga ka yahay, uma baahnid in aad 23 kale ee sacadood ka fikirto adiga oo ay ku hor yaalan noolasha inteedi kale oo kaga bahan in aad ku bixiso 23 sacadood. 
Maliinta wixi ka danbeeyey hab galmeed-kayga dhinac ayaan iskaga dhigay oo ka fikirkiisa iskuma howlo. Waxan awooda saaray noolasha inteeda kale, hadalkaasina aad ayuu ii cawiyay. Maliinti ka dib uma fikirin aniga oo Khaniis ah waxan u fikira aniga oo aniga ah. Marka akhriste aniguna waxay taladaydu tahay naftaada hoos ha u eegin oo noolasha sideeda u qado.


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Maxad Khaniis u tahay?

Maxad Khaniis u tahay?

OBS: My Dear blog followers, I will soon publish the english part. Because I want  to see how many followers in English part.


Ma is waydiisay kaliga, mar amaba ka badan sabaabta aad  khaniis u tahay? adeyga dhaqan-ka somaali-da,  diinta Islam-ka iyo isku xidhnashaaha bulshaduba. Waxay qofka marar badan ku keenan in u is waydiiyo sabaabta u isagu dadka uga duwan yahay, uga farxad yar yahay amaba uu uga takooran yahay bulshada inteeda kale!
Marka su'aashu waxa weeye: Khaniis-nimada ma lagu dhasha, mise waa is badel noololeed oo kugu dhacay??? Ma cudurba oo ma laga dawoobi kara? hadiiba aan ahay khaniis sideyn ugu noolan kara noolashayda?

Akhriste, marka hore kali kuma tihid jaho wareer-ka maskaxeed ee qab galmeed-kaagu kugu keenay. Waxad la wadaagta uhunta iyo calool xanuunka malayiin khaniis oo aduunkan korkiisa ku nool, gaar ahaan wadamada duni-da 3-aad iyo kuwa muxafid-ka ah.
Khaniis-nimada ama in u qofku ka helo qof kale oo lab la ah ama dhidig la ah, maaha waa qayrul dabiici ah ama xanuun ah. waa dabiici, la mid ah sida u qof uu uga heli karo qof kale oo la jinsi ahayn, sida in u labku dhidiga ka helo. Maha kaliya wax xambaarsan galmo walow ay ku biyo shubato galmo, sida dabiiciga ah waa wax la xidhiidha jacayl, ka helid ama soo jidaasho dareen leh. Khaniis-nimadu waa wax loo dhasho biology ahaan, sida qof uu ugu dhasho in u wiil-ku gabadh ka helo ayaa loogu dhasha. Sida anaad u dooran karin midab-ka timahaaga, ayaanad sido kale u dooran karin hab galmeed-ka. Jamacado badan oo US, Canada iyo Europe ku yaala oo badhitaano cilmiyeed ku sameeyay ayaa sidaas xaqijiyay. 
Dadku isku wada mid maha, taasina waa xigmada noolasha. Dadka qaar waxa ay ogaadan in ay khaniis yihiin wakhti hore oo noolasha ah, halka qaarna ay ogaadan wakhti danbe. Waxan odhan karna waa wax ku xidhan xalado badan, sida in u qofku helo fursad u hab galmeed-kiisa ku ogaado, degaan-ka u ku nool yahay sida ay bulshadu tahay iyo waliba aqoonta maskaxeed ee qof leeyahay. Waxan shaki ku jirin in awood ahaanta jidh-ka lagu kala duwan yahay, tusaale ahaan qaar in ay jajab yihiin, halka qaar kalena ad adeg yihiin. Amaba aan idhaahdo hab galmeed-ka qaar waa kor 'top', qaar hoos 'bottom' halka qaarna ay yihiin 'versatile'. Wuxuba waa hab nolooledyo ama galmeedyo kaliya, intubana waxay ku biyo shubtan khaniis-nimo. Wax macno ah ma samaynayso kamana dhigna in anaad khaniis ahayn hadii ad adeg-tahay amaba aad kor tahay, sida ayna khaniis-nimadu jajab-ka ama hoosaynta ugu gaar ahayn. Khaniis-nimadu waa in aad ka hesho qof aad isku jinsi tihiin. In ay gabadhi gabadh ka hesho ama wiil wiil ka helo waa shardiga kaliya in aad khaniis tahay. Marka dad badan waxay is weyndiin karan: Ma jirta khaniis-nimo nus ah ama 50% ah??? Jawaabta waa haa iyo maya. 
Haa waxad noqon karta qof labada jinsiba ka hela, Tusaale ahaan in gabdhaha iyo wiilashaba aad soo jidasho u leedahay, waxa luqada English-ka loogu yeedho Bisexual. 
Maya oo khaniis-nimo nus ah 50% ah ma jirto, waa hadaad u haysato in anaad khaniis buuxa ahayn, madama ayna bulshadu jiljileec kugu arki karin amaba aad tahay mid wax uun u taga oo aan loo tagin. In aad khaniis tahay kaliya waxa ku filan in aad ka hesho qof aad isku lab ama dhidig tihiin. Hab galmeed-ku sidiisaba waa hab nooluhu iskugu raaxeeyo isaga oo qof-ba kaalin qadanayo, Marka taasi kama dhigna in mid-kood u yahay fal kaabe aan isagu qayb ka ahayn waxa socda. Madaama aad ku raxaysanayso maskaxiyan iyo dareen ahaanba hab galmeed-kaasi, adna waad ku jirta. Mana ahaa hab galmeed-ku wax la isku liido, takooro amaba la isku yaraysto, kaliya waa hab raxo oo ku kobon wakhtiga u socda, haba yarate waxba kama ahaan shakhsiyada qofka. Kaliya waa galmo. 
Bulshadaynu ka imanay ee somaali-du waxay ka mid tahay, bulshoyiin-ka aadka isku liida amaba is yasa, taasna waxay keenaysa in qofku u mar walba ku jiro xayn daab nololeed oo ah. Mar u isagu ka cararaayo in u dhibane u noqdo bulshada iyo mar uu dhibane u yahayba. Marka waxay qofka ku keenaysa in u isagu is aqbali waayo oo u laba nololood ku noolado ama u dhibane bulshada ku dhex dhiban noqdo.
Hadaba qaybta xigta tan oo aan dabici doono jimcaha danbe waxay ka hadli doonta: KHANIIS-NIMADU DAWO MA LEEDAHAY? Jimcaha xigana waxan ka hadli doona: SIDEED UGU NOOLAN KARTA NOOLOSHAADA SIDA UGU FICAN? 


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Song of the day

What the new year brought to me???

OBS. Sheekada qaybta Somaliga ah hoos waaye.

Happy new year for every one. 
I just came back from 10 days holidays with my family and friends after new year break. I had really wonderful time. I was with my family in southern of Sweden and then when to Cologne, Germany to meet a guy, who I met last march when he visited a friend of mine. 3 weeks after I went to Brussels as I planed to go there before we met, I met him again in there. things happened for my last hours in my trip. We both liked what we felt, but we were unsure. We continued talking and chatting to each other. After few weeks I told him that I can't continue making date with him. He was quiet disappointed, but we still talk and sms to each other. My last trip to Paris, november 2012. He asked me if he could join to me and I said no. He became disappointed and I was actually disappointed to my self. I had feeling in my heart for him all the time but I won't take any step toward date with him. Cause we live different countries, we have different age like I am older than him 5 years, He is more closer to gay lifestyle than me, which can make me to be jealous if we get relation. Anyhow end of the pass year, November, we decided to give chance to each other and meet. We did that and we met in Cologne. We had three wonderful days together in Cologne, we celebrated new year eve together with his friends. We didn't talk actually our feelings direct, He went back to Brussels and I came back home in Stockholm. We talked over the phone but we didn't said anything. Now I have butterflies in my stomach. It looks like both of us have it but each one waiting the other. I am trying to keep me strong and do my daily life as usual. don't know what tomorrow brings but this is what I feeling now. 

Somali Part.

Sanad wanaagsan dhamaantiin.
waxan ka soo laabtay 10 Malmood oo fasaxi sanad-ka cusub ah, waxan booqday qoyskayga oo degan konfurta Sweden, ka dibna Cologne, Germany oo aan kula kulmay wiil, wiilkaas oo aan hada ka hor Stockholm ku kulanay bishii 3-aad 2012, markaas oo u booqanayay wiil kale oo aan asxaab nahay. 3 todobaad ka dib ayaan anaa booqday Brussels, Belgium oo ii qorshaysnayd isaga ka hor. Waan la kulmay mar labaad, habeen-kii ugu danbaysay ayaa dareen na dhex maray, taas oo qalbigayga raad ku reebtay. Waxan ku soo laabtay Stockholm, shekaysi-gii waa noo sii socday, mudo ka dib ayaa waxan u sheegay, in anaan anigu wax xidhiidh ah rabin, maxa yeelay, waxan ku kala nool nahay laba dal oo kala duwan, da'da waxa noo dhaxeeya farqi 5-sano ah oo aan anigu ka weynahay. Sidaas oo ay ahayd hadana xidhiidh-kayagu waa sii socday. Socdaal-kaygii ugu danbeyay ee aan Paris, France ku aaday november 2012 ayaa wuxu ii waydiistay in  aan halkaas ku kulano, hase yeshe waan ka diiday. Runtii waa u niyad jabay aniguna sido kale,. Ugu danbayntii dhamaad-kii november ayaan go'aan ku gaadhnay in aan fasaxa sanadka cusub ku kulano Cologne, Germany. Halkaas ayaan ku kulanay oo aan ku wada qadanay 3-maalmood oo aad u wacan, Habeen-kii sanad-ka cusubna halkaas ayaan ku wada dabaal degnay isaga iyo asxaabtiisa. Run ahaantii sii toos ah ugamaanu wada hadal waxa xigi doona hada iyo dareen-kayaga. Hase yeshe waxan la soo laabtay laab salaaxan, waxan filaya isaguna sidaas oo kale. Tel-ka waanu ka wada hadalnay hase yeshe waxay u eekayd in mid walba ka kale jawaabta maalmihii tagay iyo macaan-koodi u isagu u noqdo ka ka hor hadla. Ma ogi waxay bari soo sito yase yeshe manta waa la ii haya.....