Ogaysiis: Qoraalka Somaliga ah, hoosta ka akhriso, akhriste!
So many Gay Prides held every summer in the Europe and So many
other countries in the western world.
You might ask yourself What is gay pride and why is it
important??
As wikipedia describes Gay pride is ''the positive stance
against discrimination and violence toward lesbian, gay, bisexual, and
transgender (LGBT) people to promote their self-affirmation, dignity, equality
rights, increase their visibility as a social group, build community, and
celebrate sexual diversity and gender variance. Pride, as opposed to shame and
social stigma, is the predominant outlook that bolsters most LGBT rights
movements throughout the world''
But Is that how everyone else see gay pride? Well, honestly I
think it means something a bit different to each and every individual. Some my conservative friends see
to wear improper dress, such as Fetish Clothing and Female Fetish Clothing with
Male Fetish Clothing, can increase hate crime against LGBT and can create
negative images of gay people.
I totally disagree with my friends, I think there’s no big deal
made out of what people wear and how they express themselves. Gay pride is all
about to break social rules about gender and sexual orientation. What important
is that people being able to express their gender as they see fit, as clothes
are often a visual representation of our identity. Because of the lack of
acceptance and tolerance is the reason that others have issue with gay or
transgender people. Not what they attach to their body and what style they’re
cut in. There are bigger problems to worry about in the world than what to than
to criticize gay people.
I like to watch the floats, because pride gives people various
forms and shapes of expression.
But where we're standing right now as Somali Gay Community about
Gay prides??
We are far from to hold Gay Pride in Somalia or even so many
somalis in the outside somalia participate gay pride parade. I think even that
we are far from to realize ourselves and accept our sexual orientation.
I mean most of us live in fear, very upset and confused about
their sexuality. We have been traumatized by cultural, traditions and religion
aspects. Family has been important in our existence and their expectations
always been priority for us. So that is why many faces of fear can sometimes be
difficult to hear in their inner voices. So we have to pretend than being
ourselves!
I know Being gay in Somali community is not easy, like every
other Islamic society. But those who are victims of hate crimes are those who
still living in africa, and if you are gay and less educated or living in a
rough life, you become a scapegoat for whoever wants to hurt you. With
education, you encounter new ideas and open your mind. The reason why so many
of us suffered is because they didn’t went to school or less educated.
Any change is going to take a long, long time. After all, it’s
taken the Europe and free western countries so many years to get here, in a
point that gay people can hold gay prides. It is going to take at least 50
years for us to reach!
I'm expecting many of you will come! we
look forward to seeing you there!
if you have any questions please don't hesitate to contact me
Qaybta Somaliga ah
Waxa sanad walba lagu qabta wadamo badan oo
yurub ah iyo waliba wadamada galbeedka, isku soo baxyo dhaqameed oo bulshada
khaniisinta ah ay ku mujiyaan jiritaankooda. Waxa lagu yeedha Gay Pride. Waxan
filaya in badan oo idinka mid ah in ay maqlayn ama arkayn isku soo baxyada
noocaas ah.
Ujeedada laga leeyahay isku soo baxyada
noocaas ah, waxa weeye in la mujiiyo jiritaanka, bah weynta khanisiinta, si
fariin loogu diro kooxaha inkirsan jiritaan-ka kala duwanashaha jinsiga. Waa
dhaqdhaqaaq nabdoon oo looga gol leeyahay kor u soo qaadka xuquuqda adaamaha
iyo sinaashaha dadka.
Hase yeeshe sidaas dadku uma wada arkaan,
dadyowga dhaliila isku soo baxa khaniisinta ee ‘Gay Pride’-ku waxay ku
dhaliilan, in u yahay isku soo bax anshax xumo badan iyo qawanaan lagu soo
bandhigo, kaas oo sowr xun iyo fariin khaldan u gudbinaya dadka kale ee aan
khaniisiinta ahayn.
Waxa anigu qaar badan oo asxaabtayda
muxafidiinta ah kula dooda, in ayna wax macno ah samaynayn sida dadku u
labistan marka ay dareenkooda gudbinayaan. Isku soo baxa macnihiisu waxa weeye
in la jabiyo dhan bulsheed-ka cebaal-ka xambaarsan ee amiinsan in noolashu wiil
iyo gabadh kaliya qaybsan karaan. Waa isku soo bax la rabo in lagu tuso dadka
xaqiiqda albaabada iyo gidaarada lagu dayri rabo ee jirta. Waa isku soo bax
tageero u muujinaya, wiil-ka iyo gabadha la ciilay, iyada oo lagu maagsan yahay
hab galmeed-kooda, kaas oo anay dooran. Marka hadanay baroortu orgiga ka
weynayn oo aan nacayb dartiis loo dhaliilayn khanisiinta, sida ay u dabaaal
degaan waxba kuma khaldana. Wax badan oo ay tahay in aynu ka warwarno ayaa aduunka
jira, oo u naceeb-ka iyo is faquuqu ugu horeeyaan.
Waxan is waydiiyay inagu ‘’Bulshada
khanisiinta somaliyeed’’ halkeyn ka tagan nahay isku soo baxyada khanisiinta
‘’Gay Prides?
Waxan qaba in aan aad uga foognahay in aynu
isku soo baxno oo aynu cadayno in aan jirno, amabase ka qayb qadano
dhaqdhaqaaqyada xuquuq-khaniis radiska ah ee aduunka ka socda. Waxabanse amiinsanahay in badan oo inaga mid
ah in ay la gabi dhaclaynayaan xalaad nafsadeed iyo is diidsiis-ka dareenkooda
ah, iyaga oo cabsi ku nool, kaas oo bushada, dhaqanka iyo diinta kaga imaanana.
Weynaynta iyo muhiimada u qaysku noolasheena ku leeyahay ayaa mar walba ah xayn
daab, kaas oo inaga hor jooga soo dibad
baxa, maxa yeelay waxan nahay bulsho ay qiimi weyn ugu fadhido, aragtida dadka
ku xeeran, inta badan aad uga jarbeebta sowrka ay dadka kale inaga haysan
karaan. Sidaas darteed ayaa qof walba maamka iyo aqliga ugu guxaysa, magacay
ba’aye sow reerkayaga lagu caayi maayo jiritaan kayga.
Waa marag ma doon, bulshadeena Somaliyeed
iyo waliba bulshoyiinka islaam-ka ayna khaniis-nimadu meel ku lahayn. Inta
badana kuwa dhibtu sadka u noqota ee ayaan darada la darsa, waa kuwa wali
afrika ku nool. Maxa yeelay waxay bartilmaamayd u noqdaan dacayb abaabulan iyo
waliba mid dahsoon.
Sabaabta in badan oo bulshadeena
khanisiinta ah ay dhibta daris ula noqdaana waa iyaga oo ah dad hayn iyo aqoon
ahaanba aad u hoseeya, sabaabtuna waa cadaadiska bulshada ay ku dhex nool
yihiin oo liida. In kasta oo ay jiraan khanisii wax bartay oo noolal hesha,
kuwaasi waa ka baxsadaan dhibta, maxa yeelay aqoontooda iyo lacagta ayaa
badbaadisa.
Waxan qaba is badal kasta oo bulshada
somaliyeed iyo sowrka ay khaniis-nimada ka qabto ku yimaada, inu qadan doono
mudo dheer, sida aynu ku aragnay wadamada manta sinaantu ka jirto, jid dheer
ayaa loo soo maray xuquuqda ay heestan. Wuxu Allah ha u naxariiste Abwaan Tima
cade yidhi ‘’ LAMA HELO WADAADOW WAXAN CIDDI KU HOWSHOOWNE, NAFTA LOO HANTAAQA,
WAXAY HIIGSO LEEDAHAYE’’
Aqoon
la hela iftiin la hela ee waxa loo bahan yahay, dad wax bartay oo inaga ah oo
arag tida la inaga qabo badala.
Ugu danbayntii waxan rajaynaya in badan oo
Somali ah in aan London Pride ku arko.
Qalinkii: Ahmed Somali
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